The Lognions

abigail Whisnant
Nov 30, 2016
5 min read

Taking a look back at the first couple that ever agreed to hire me as a wedding coordinator, without any experience at all. Laura and Lance Lognion definitely took a chance on me when they agreed to let me coordinate their whole wedding reception. She instilled a lot of faith in me and just enough encouragement to begin the journey of a new business venture. Had it not been for their willingness and trust, I wouldn't have ever started Align Event Company. These two have been enjoying marriage and a whole new journey of a life together. They will be making their two year anniversary in April of 2017 and can't wait for many more years to come. We decided to do a little Q&A with these two love birds to get the scoop on their first two years of marriage.

There are five different kinds of Love languages according to Gary Chapman, the author of "The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts." The first one being: words of affirmation which is something along the lines of verbal compliments received from your partner. The second love language is quality time. Spending quality time with your significant other can be something as simple as Netflixing with a big bowl of popcorn and a warm cozy blanket. The third: receiving gifts, which for some, is a visible symbol of the love your partner holds for you. The fourth: acts of service, which can be something as simple as taking out the trash or cleaning up the bedroom before he/she gets home. The fifth: physical touch is something that not only physically connects us, but emotionally as well. Sometimes just a simple hug or touch of the hand can prove to someone that your love for them is real. I think this last one is sometimes lost in translation with the whole dating process, which is why it is important to some partners within their marriage.

Q: What are Laura's Love Languages?

A: I think Laura's love languages are quality time and acts of service. We have little time together because our schedules are so opposite, so the time we do spend together we try to take advantage of it.

Q: What are Lance's Love Languages?

A: I think Lance's love language is words of affirmation with a hint of physical touch. Sometimes he needs to be reminded that he is loved no matter what grade he made or how he feels about himself (don't we all). I chose him and I'm so grateful he chose me. Sometimes it's as simple as telling each other just that. I'm here with all my flaws to love you and all of yours.I add physical touch because it makes us feel connected and I know we both need that. When he kisses me on the forehead or holds my hand, it reminds him that we are connected. As hectic as life gets sometimes, you need a little connection

Q: What is your favorite thing about Laura?

A: My favorite thing about Laura is her big heart and love for others. Oh and her nice caboose too.

Q: What is your favorite thing about Lance?

A: First response: his smile, it made me melt 4 years ago and it still does. Second: his strength. Every couple has waves where one person is strong for the other. He knows when to be strong, encouraging, and when to push me, or when to just hold me a little tighter.

Finding the time in this day in age, to really get to know a person is something we all struggle with, especially through the whole dating process. Heck, dating your partner of 4 years can even be hard, but I think it is essential to every couple, including the ones that have been together for decades. Dating each other and finding out something new about your partner everyday, should be a goal to set for the both of you. I truly believe you never really know a person, but finding out as much as you can about them can be exciting. These fun facts we find out about our partner can be reassuring and helpful when trying to get through a rough patch. Helping each other out and encouraging each other on a daily basis is something that we all should make time for within our relationship. #relationshipgoals

Q: How does Laura encourage you on a daily basis?

A: She reminds me of my good qualities and shows me that I can achieve every one of my goals if I set my mind to it.

Q: How does Lance encourage you on a daily basis?

A: By doing the little things, like taking care of the dishes because he knows I'm coming home late. Cleaning the toilet seat, taking out the trash, or filling up the car with gas. It seems so small, but he knows they mean so much to me.

Q: Your idea of the perfect date night? (Lance)

A: Dave and Busters!

Q: Your idea of the perfect date night? (Laura)

A: A nice hotel, Italian food or Sushi, and a concert for an artist we can both agree on (LOL, which is rare).

"Then comes marriage..."

As a wedding coordinator I have seen my fair share of couples and marriages, including these two, Laura and Lance. I have learned through simple observation, that the wedding is only a small portion of a couple's life together. The wedding can be beautifully put together, but the couple is what that day is all about. Two people and two families coming together as one. Marriage is tough work and the first years can be an adjustment period for the two partners and the two families. The most important thing is to be there for each other, through all the ups and downs.

Q: Any advice for newlyweds? (Lance)

A: Communication is the key and help each other understand that each of you are two different people.

Q: Any advice for newlyweds? (Laura)

A: It's a lot more than just a wedding. We get so caught up in the wedding itself that we forget all of the wonderful things that come after. Making a life with someone is a lifelong adventure. Compromise is a big part of it. Listen and I mean really listen to what your partner is telling you and most of all, be supportive. I may not always agree with Lance or some of the choices he makes, but I always stand behind him.